Here it is in a nutshell ladies you don't give men the chance to be men. ‘He trifling and ain't got no job,' well give him a chance and stop treating him as a child.  I’m going to list five things you women can do to get that man to stop being trifling and for you to stop being so nagging.

I love the holiday season.  Which to me lasts from November until the beginning of January.  I enjoy the media reports of people flocking to retail outlets in the wee hours of the morning to get into a fight over a meaningless $50 discount.  I enjoy the reports of 'miracles' occurring around this time of year and people giving thanks for things that are taken for granted every other day.

 We all have our reasons for the season and regardless of my sarcastic remarks I also have my own superficial reasoning. This time of year brings to mind a poem by Percy Bysshe Shelley here is an excerpt:

What is it about art that captures our attention? Why do we look at those blobs of colored ink or streaks of charcoal and either fall in love or heave in disgust (I would hate if the latter has happened to any of you). Some of you might be thinking that you don"t know the first thing about art or qualified to critique it but I digress. In each and every one of us is a critique because art is created for you to view so automatically you are an art critique. All you need is an open mind.

What is a community? To some it is a group of people living within the same neighborhood, city etc. For others a community means people who share a particular trait or traits, some familiarity bring them together.